Sunday, July 28, 2013

matty matty bo batty






My sweet baby boy is a year old.  




28 inches long ~ 20 pounds, 6 ounces ~ curly brown hair ~ eyes a color no one can really pinpoint more than blue-grayish brown ~ one tooth ~ goes by "Matty" so much that he may not answer to "Matthew" ~ loves yogurt melts, sandwich bits, pancakes and cereal ~ his nose scrunches up like mine when he laughs ~ loves to clap  ~ his brothers are his favorite entertainers ~ lights up when Daddy comes in the room ~ a quiet observer ~ as laid back as can be, except when it's time to eat and things are taking longer than expected ~ sleeps with a pacifier in his mouth and at least one in each hand ~ loves when Peter reads him stories or when Davis sings him a song ~ bath time wanderer ~ at bedtime, he pats my shoulder as I pat his back ~ his belly laughs have stopped strangers to say hello and marvel at his temperament ~ tolerated many ear infections with a great attitude ~ makes himself comfortable ~ when music plays, his extremities seem to move involuntarily ~ loves his crib ~ enjoys splashing, playing with Chief, wheels and making music with whatever noisemakers are within reach




We had a small gathering of family to celebrate Matty's special day.  Fortunately, the temperature cooperated  - unlike last year, the hottest day on record in Nashville. 







 



the curls!




This is as far as he got before ... well, let's just say the cake didn't go down so well.


 Meanwhile...





I have mentioned before how I think of Matthew as my little Godwink - God's way of letting me know he's got my back.  I have been blessed with three wonderful babies, each with their own little quirks and peccadilloes.  I have to say now, a year into his life, that Matty has brought out the best in all of us.  His brothers are better because of his adoration and attention; his daddy and I are better because of his sweet little spirit.  I'm so grateful he's ours.

Note: Since his birthday four weeks ago, two more teeth have emerged. He's still snaggle-toothed, though.

Saturday, July 13, 2013

ex-TK

Believe it or not, I was once so organized that my friends used to call me "TK," short for Trapper Keeper, those handy binders decorated with all sorts of characters-of-the-moment from the 80s.  I loved them.  Of course, I have never been one to walk through the school supply aisle without buying anything.  Ever.  But I digress.

Yesterday, my to-do list was shoved aside because I suddenly realized that my passport is expired, and Hayes is whisking me away to the Caribbean in three weeks.  [record scratch] So my whole day was devoted to safe-deposit-boxing, data entry, printer ink purchasing, ID photo taking and mailing.  Okay, so there were some boys occasionally surfacing between naps, meals and shenanigans.  I was busy.  In the midst of all this, I asked myself why I couldn't manage to keep it all together anymore.  I mean I know that the boys should take up my time, but must they take every morsel of memory too?

So I admit that I have been negligent in blog posts.  I have been preoccupied and sometimes lazy.  I admit that there were times that I had a few minutes but I didn't even know where to begin.  Then I scrolled through some quick pictures taken over the last several weeks and I realized that the boys and their pictures tell a bigger story.  I just fill in the details. 


Their second favorite place to procrastinate (#1 is in front of the porch TV)

Temporary breathing treatments for a bronchiolitis-prone little boy - he was a champ!

Roasting marshmallows (pantsless, of course)

Ninja-pirate baby-love

the remnants of our silly string fight, after we realized Chief might eat our ammunition

Backyard camping, take 1 - a success!

a glow bath - highly recommend!



Matthew turned one - and apparently doesn't love cake.  More on that to come.

...but our snaggletooth sure is a cutie!

Hayes and I took Peter canoeing and had a blast...

...while Davis spent a week with his Nanny Em in Louisiana...


...so Peter and Matty got some quality pantsless time together before...
...the big boys reunited again at the lake!

He really is this cute all. the. time.

Davis, standing pantsless on the back deck YELLING in anticipation for our babysitter, not due to arrive for 30 minutes from that moment.  He's not exactly shy, nor does he suffer from separation anxiety.

Backyard camping, take 2 - an even better success, because of the overhead view. 



Happy July!


Tuesday, June 18, 2013

nine

For Hayes:

Nine years ago...




If you had told me that I would be living back in Nashville with three sons and about to send my oldest to school at my (then) place of work, I would have high-fived you and moved on.

If you had told me that I would have blond haired, blue-eyed boys, I'd have laughed and rolled my eyes. Yeah right.

If you'd have told me one of them would have curls, I'd have insisted you had the wrong girl. No way.

Yet here I sit with three somewhat blond, blue-eyed boys, one of whom has sweet baby curls. Never have I been more proud of you, of us and of what we have been able to accomplish together. Thank you, Hayes, for teaching me how to be part of a team.

Now, would you mind teaching our kids? They don't love the concept of compromise so much. Can't imagine where they got that...







Sunday, June 16, 2013

happy father's day





Father's Day was, not surprisingly, a difficult day for me growing up.

It wasn't until Hayes and I started a family of our own that I began to think of this day as more than a reminder of the father I didn't have. It has become a day to celebrate the ones I have.










And of course, all my favorite uncles.

It takes a village, folks... and how lucky my boys are to be a part of this one.






Friday, May 31, 2013

'tis going to be a good summer

Hayes has discovered a new pastime

passing on the love of "bawled peanuts"

dumpster diving... i'm not really sure what this is about

happy boys

another happy boy

climbing up onto jump rock

he did it!

awww.

the promise of darth vader headphones overpowered any fear about jumping off of jump rock

little pig nose

riding solo on the hot dog


PS - On Matty's 11 month birthday, he finally got his first tooth.  I'm pretty sure Peter was the most excited of the bunch. He called Nanny, Reenie and Boopah to share the news and then instructed them to "pass it on!"



Sunday, May 05, 2013

start spreadin' the news

Peter Pan was a rollicking good time. Peter sang, he gestured, he "flew" and he had fun doing it. I don't know how 5 teachers managed to pull it off but it was awesome.

We had a big surprise for Peter. I secretly planned a mother-son trip to New York City. He has asked countless questions about the city and all the "stuff" they have there. I decided that after the adjustments of the past year, we both deserved  the treat of some one on one time in the big apple.


So after the play we took pictures with Reenie and Nanny, then I spilled the beans about our trip. "I'm taking you home to grab our suitcase and off we will go to New York!  Just you and me! Yippee!"

Crickets.

And then came tears.

"But I won't get to have the lunch that you packed for me!  And I won't get to see Daddy tonight!"

Not exactly the reaction I had envisioned. Time to break out the big guns.

Hotel. Natural history museum. Dinosaur bones. Empire State Building. Statue of Liberty. Subways. Buses. Lego store. Uncle Geoff will be there too.

And that frown slowly but surely turned upside down.

By the time we got home he was ecstatic, asking all sorts of questions about our plans. He eagerly added a few "essentials" to his backpack and off we went.


The airport can be a little overwhelming, but he was very curious and patient. I got lots of "I'm so excited, Mommy" and "I love you so much, Mommy." Our flight was delayed so we grabbed a bite and sat to watch some airplanes. There was a flight to New York leaving in 15 minutes so I got us re-booked on it, and we were off.

This was Peter's first flight in two years, so he was way more observant and knowledgable than the last time. He waved to Reenie on the highway (she was taking Davis to Birmingham for the weekend) and swore he could see "the whole wor- wait, Murfreesboro" as we took off. Oh, just you wait.

We passed the time reading our magazines and playing Go Fish, but when we approached New York I made sure he was watching the landscape change below and we eventually spotted the Statue of Liberty, downtown, then the Empire State Building, and so on.  He couldn't believe that there was an airport with runways on the water.

Of course we brought Legos so I could sleep past 5am

After settling into our hotel, it became obvious that there was but one thing on today's to do list: the Lego store.  We walked there from our hotel and Peter commented a few times how crowded the streets were.  Fifth Avenue, baby!  Lego was impressive but not that much more so than our store here at home.  He got a few treats and we caught a subway downtown for the Empire State Building. The subway was a big hit, though the most memorable comment  was, "It doesn't look like this on the Mighty Machines [movies]."

I saw it coming from a mile away and I still felt it was something we had to do.  For those who have not done this most touristy thing, it is lines and lines and elevators and lines and another elevator and now metal detectors and more lines and photo stations.  Peter's feet hurt and he wanted to go home BEFORE we got to the observation deck.  That scene in Sleepless in Seattle when Tom Hanks jets right on up and out to the observation area?  I call shenanigans!! It took us about an hour to reach the top, and we were the lucky ones.

Reading his Lego magazine in line
In the lobby of the ESB, post-observation
So, after we wore ourselves out riding elevators and dodging other people's pictures, we got to watch the sun go down all over the city.  It was beautiful.  And we needed food.  It was after we grabbed a bite that I paid my first "stupid tax" to the City of New York.  As Mother of the Year, I thought it would be fun to try all the different modes of transportation available since my kid loves all vehicles.  Those pedicab/rickshaw things looked like fun, and frankly I didn't want to walk the mile home to the hotel.  We hopped in and had a lovely, goofy, and scenic ride home.  When we got to our hotel, the "driver" showed me the breakdown of pricing for that ride, and I nearly fainted.  I thought I was being punked.  Suffice it to say that that ride cost half of my airfare.  Moving on.

 
Before the "check" came - but it was fun!

He's sleeping across the bed with his lower half on me.  Wasn't exactly a deep restful sleep...

Saturday we ordered breakfast in bed and lazed around until we had to catch a boat for a cruise around downtown Manhattan.  It was a gorgeous spring day and we got to walk through the west side, which was a nice change from midtown crowds.  At one point it was so quiet that Peter decided he must be the only boy in New York.  We saw the USS Intrepid and the spaceship Endeavor on exhibit, then cruised around to see Ellis Island, the Statue of Liberty (well, guess who had to go to the bathroom right as we approached Lady Liberty?), lots of bridges and the UN, as well as a spectacular view of downtown.  The new Freedom Tower at One WTC is beautiful - and yes, very tall indeed.  From there we stopped at Toys R Us to check out the Ferris wheel, and took a ride to rest our feet.

Checking out the ESB from the Hudson River
I ain't afraid o' no Hulk!
The Ferris Wheel
That afternoon we spent at the American Museum of Natural History.  We were greeted by gigantic dinosaur skeletons and visited with a gigantic whale, a giant squid, several arctic and forest creatures; we visited various galaxies and re-enacted the Big Bang.  A very productive and informative afternoon.  Then we took a city bus to our old neighborhood.

The walruses
Polar Bear!
Having a chat with Teddy Roosevelt
In front of our old building, at which point my phone died and I couldn't take any more pictures
The park across from our building was a lovely place to spend time when we lived in the city.  The river walk, the dog runs, the sunny patches of grass - all were a welcome retreat from the concrete jungle.  It wasn't until my last visit a few years ago that I actually took a peek into the playground area of this park, and I was blown away.  It's the size of a football field with play structures all around the perimeter and a fountain pad in the middle for kids to play in the sprinkler or play soccer or hockey.  I turned Peter loose and he took advantage of the chance to run.  After a half hour or so, it was getting to be time to head back so we could meet up with my brother (in town for a conference).  I had been watching all the kids and their parents and daydreaming about how it would have been for us to raise our family there.  Then, like a sign from God, I hear two sets of parents getting into a screaming fight over a little girl's scooter.  Yelling.  Two dads getting up in each other's faces.  Police intervening.   Peter and I quietly exited and I said a silent thank you for divine providence.  Our cab ride home took us through some old stomping grounds, and then it was time to reunite two peas in a pod.
  
Geoff and Peter go so well together.  Peter teases Geoff and Geoff dishes it right back, somehow without evoking whining.  It's so fun to watch him as an uncle.  Big hugs were exchanged and we set out for dinner, which was only eclipsed by cupcakes from Magnolia Bakery for dessert.  I kid you not, it was worth Peter's sugar high to enjoy that little piece of heaven.


We went to Sarabeth's for brunch on Sunday, an old favorite that never disappoints.  We trekked down to Grand Central so Peter could tell our train lover all about the signs and tracks and platforms.  Finally, we parted ways and caught a cab to the airport for our flight home. 

Can you just feel his eyes rolling behind the sunglasses?

Such a happy boy to see his uncle - and eat pancakes

Where Daddy worked

Inside Grand Central Station

Headed uptown from 42nd Street/Grand Central Station

Couldn't resist - at our old subway stop

He read this entire book while we sat on the tarmac. But he was quiet!!

So many times Peter would look at me with sweet eyes and thank me for taking him to New York or tell me how glad he was to spend time alone with me.  He's such a goofball and I was able to focus solely on him and enjoy his "fiveness" without distraction.  I must say, however, I slept much more comfortably back home without his acrobatics.